Which one would you choose?(only one) 1)the one who loves you OR 2)the one who you love?

This is always a question for all women? can anyone also help to find the psychological reason behind each option???

I would chose the one who loves me, because at least that answer is more certain, The question doesn't explicitly state that I am going to be with this person forever, and even if I were, it does not say that I am married or otherwise bound to him/her in anyway. So I think you could have much better teamwork in this situation.

If I were with the person who loved me, perhaps I too would either love him/her from the start, or perhaps overtimes, I would grow to love them back. But even if I didn't, I know that I could always count on this person to be there for me if I needed them. I would also be more apt to help this person out as well, because they obviously intend me no harm and have only my best interests in mind, so I would naturally have some concern for their best interests as well.