Birds in the Heart - Sewer of Thoughts
problems will inevitably arise.
If our thoughts are well managed and in good order,
it is like a sewer with a clear passage.
When problems come up,
like rainwater flowing into a sewer that is
open and runnign smoothly,
we do not need to worry that the water may
overflow and cause a flood.
Keeping the mind open and free of cluttered thoughts
is similar to having a sewer that is flowing freely.
If no sewage ia accumulated,
no blockage will be there;
and no problems will be generated.
Birds in the Heart - A Stinky Sewer
stuff, worries, conflicts, expectations, etc.
It is like the sewage in a stinky sewer,
if left accumulated an backed up,
maggots will grow in it,
emitting an awful stench every day.
This is precisely the cause of our distress.
In this case,
what can we do to get rid of our distress?
How about just letting it all flow away?
If you can keep everything flowing freely,
and not accumulated these tensions and afflictions,
when the distress has flowed away,
you will surely be a carefree Bodhisattva
with no worries and no hindrances.
Birds in the Heart - Looking at a Lamp
But, why is it that we are not liberate right now?
Since you awareness and consciousness got
stuck together with the outer world,
your feelings and experiences focus mostly on
those things that are visible.
Consequently, you began to distinguish between that
which belongs to you, and that which does not belong to you,
You worry about those things that belong to you,
and you do not worry about those
that do not belong to you.
In other words, you fuss over the visible things you have;
and thus, you ignore the already liberated.
Gradual and careful scruting and reasongin are called for
in order to understand that every sight,
sound, consciousness, and awareness, is already liberated.
Actually, what is visible to us does not belong to us,
just like this lamp. When we look at this lamp,
We know that we are looking at a lamp,
But, it is a lamp; it is not I.
It has nothing really to do with me.
Birds in the Heart - Using Money
A burdensome desire tires you out.
A desire without burden is just fine.
Desires are not awful.
Similarly, having money is not sinful.
The important thing is to know
how to utilize desires or money,
and how to distribute them.
Learn and become skillful in manging money.
Use it on virtuous deeds and righteous actions.
In this way,
the highest value of money can be manifested.
How to Start A Home Based Business
Do you know how to start a home based business?
NO?
Then read on to learn more.
Starting a home based business can be as simple or as complicated as you want to make it.
Where to start?
First things first.
You need to figure out what you are going to create your home business around.
How do you decide that? Easy. You pick something which you love doing like a hobby for example, and see if you can make a business out of it.
So if you went fishing a lot, then you could start a business around that, perhaps teaching people how to fish properly, or how to get a bigger catch.
Or even just selling fishing rods. There are many possibilites when you actually sit down and think about it.
Since it is a home based business, then I would strongly recommed that you try to sell whatever you are selling on the internet, this gives you a global audience to sell to, which means hopefully, more sales.
If you like, you can even create a little how to book which teaches people something. For example "how to improve your golf swing"
That might sound difficult to do, but it's really not. Just get a HTML compiler, make a few HTML pages with all of the information on it, and then make a little downloadable ebook out of it. Simple, but very profitable if done correctly.
What next?
If you know there is a market for the product you are going to create then good. If not, don't create it, only create a product for already existing markets. It makes it a thousand times easier to sell.
All you do is write advertisements where your target market is likely to be, and it the style they would talk, and you should make some sales. That is the very basics of it though. In reality, to maximize your sales you have to do A LOT more. But i focus on that in other articles.
Okay now what?
You try to automate your ordering system as much as possible, giving you more time to focus on marketing. then what? Well, that's the bare bones of it, your done starting up, the rest is maintenance.
Summary:
Pick a hobby which you enjoy and have a good knowledge of it.
Find out the target market for your hobby/chosen business
Discover the problems which your target market has and possibly create an ebook which solves it
Or find out the things they want, then provide them.
Advertise directly to your market.
Birds in the Heart - Possessions
Can they make your life more fulfilled?
I don't think so. Suppose you are thinking about possessing a particular thing/
At they very moment this intention is activated.
afflictions are also preparing their arrival.
Inevitably, as soon as you possess something,
there will be worries in your mind about it,
and fears that you may lose it.
You have to spend a lot of energy looking after that which you possess.
Thus, your possessions will become burdens.
It does not matter whether your possessions are things,
a carrer, a family, or relationships;
they are all the same.
Therefore,
possessing a mind and heart of clarity and understanding is the only valuable,
and the most happy thing in this world.
Birds in the Heart - Circles
a disastrous flood of knowledge.
Not only this,
each person is further entrapped by
his or her own ideas and opinions.
Our ideas are like circles.
Each idea becomes a circle we draw around ourselves.
Ecentually, we are trapped inside these circles,
spinning around and around,
unable to find the way out.
Thus, more circles are drawn,
more boundaries are set,
more discriminations are made,
and more walls are put up.
Birds in the Heart - Shopping
stress will no longer exist.
So, why not weigh the pros and cons a bit yourself?
Do you want to let go of afflictions,
or do you want to keep them stored up?
It is similar to shopping.
Usually, you go through the procedure of
evaluating the quality of an item,
and comparing the prices.
In stress management,
you should also first conduct an evaluation.
Ultimately you must decide whether it is better to
keep a particular item of affliction,
or whether you should abandon it.
If the direction of your deliberation is correct,
you will in the end be able to come up with the correct choice.
Birds in the Heart - Sailboat of the Heart
It is because, like a boat sailing in the ocean,
our mind goes up and down with the wind and the waves.
In this manner, the boat of our heart has been
tumbling forever in the sea of karma,
feeling no peace, full of troubles.
Actually, you do not have to suffer like this.
You can detach yourself from suffering,
by coming to grips with the realization that
the world around you is unreal.
We look at the ocean, day in and day out,
but we in no way are transformed into the ocean.
We look at the sky, day in and day out,
but we are not transformed into the sky.
I am still I. In reality, we come and go,
happily following the flow of our circumstances;
but we are not any of the circumstances.
Fundamentally, there is not the slightest real bondage.
So, why bother with all of this joy or sorrow
that depends on the ever-changing world of events and circumstances?
Day of Select Gowns
Select Gowns day
1pm - arrived at printemps wedding shop (City Square, JB), wait for few min, my assistant Niki bring two type of gown let me have a try. Lucky both type of the gown I can carry it. At that time Jeffrey still not arrive, due to I don't want waste time, I try the gown by myself. Try around 20++ pcs gown. 12pcs gowns is suit for me. So I wait Jeffrey come.
Around 2.30pm - my lovely Jeff and her sister (Josephine)arrived. I wear the 12pcs gowns selected show them one by one. From the 12pcs gown need to choose 5pcs for the photo shooting it is not the easy job.
Here the picture that I select for my photo shooting.
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Wedding Meaning
The Journey Of life
Tht fateful day I was born
My eyes opened up blissfully to the sun
My soul, heart and brain emerged as one
Behold my journey had begun!
This little child in time has grown
Yes! Time has flown time has flown
A lot has been learnt on my very own
Life has been a mystifying journey
With every up and down
With tears and laughter
With hate and love
With enemies and friends
But even in my journey of frustration
I have found a means of celebration
In my toilsome exploration to my fateful destination
Tick tock, the clock goes on
Sec to minute, then hourly
Week by month then yearly
Tick tock, and in my journey
I have searched, questioned and answered
Whilst walking painfully along many paths
Sometimes requesting protection
Seeking from above immunization
When hit by obstacles in locations
But I am still on this journey
Shaking hands with the unknow and merry
My passion for life which was once raw
For life's journey itself never ends
Once you have reached the end of each road
Uplifting off your entire cloggy load
Be it in a hot summer or a winter's cold
Behold! A new journey will unfold
Birds in the Hearts - Watermelon of the Five Aggregates
those of material form, sensation of feeling, perception,
volition or mental formations, and consciousness,
are the source of our trouble and suffering.
When the "five aggregates" are not broken up,
it is like a whole watermelon, complete and intact,
with absolutely no opening, not outside world.
How can we develop our wisdom in this way?
Let us not embrace this watermelon of "Five aggregates,"
as if it were some kind of treasure.
Let us break it open,
and get more in touch with the true "Self."
When the "five aggregates" are cleared out,
we will be far away from all suffering and distress.
Berry berry on the wall. Who is going to the fairest of all? Check out what berry are you now! #digiwhatberry
Berry berry on the wall. Who is going to the fairest of all? Check out what berry are you now! #digiwhatberry
Birds in the Heart - Explosive Fuse
in the mind and heart.
The mind is the fuse that
leads to the explosion of all problems.
Is feels and experiences pain.
But, it is also capable of understanding the
impermanence and contradictions of this world.
So, in our effort to realize the eternal, unchanging truth,
it is necessary for us to uncover
the location of the mind and heart.
Birds in the Heart - Taxi
The mind is the master and the driver.
The guests and the passengers change each time,
just like the many karmic connections
we encounter in life.
Without awakening and realization,
a person takes the guest as the master,
and thier mind always clings to the many passengers
who come and go.
As a result, discriminating,
changeable and unsettling moods are generated.
The Power of Positive Thinking
It is quite common to hear people say: "Think positive!", to someone who feels down and worried. Most people do not take these words seriously, as they do not know what they really mean, or od not consider them as useful and effective. How many people do you know, who stop to think what the power of positive thinking means?
Positive and negative thinking are both contagious.
All of us affect, in one way or another, the people we meet. This happens instinctively and on a subconscious level, through thoughts and feelings transference, and through body language. People sense our aura and are affected by our thoughts, and vice versa. Is it any wonder that we want to be around positive people and avoid negaticve ones?
People are more disposed to help us if we are positive, and they dislike and avoid anyone broadcasting negativity.
Negative thoughts, words and attitude bring up negative and unhappy moods and actions. When the mind is negative, poisons are released into the blood, which cause more unhappiness and negativity, This is the way to failure, frustration and disappointment.
Birds in the Heart - Watching Movies
getting lost in the midst of phenomena.
For example, while watching a movie,
you follow the scenario of the story,
sometimes crying, sometimes laughing.
In those moments,
your mind follows what your eyes are seeing;
it shifts around, and your mood becomes wrapped up,
tied to what you are seeing.
In this situation, how is liberation possible?
In just an instant, however,
you may discover that it is merely a story, sometihing unreal;
and then you will be able to leap out and free yourself.
A person with his or her mind shifting around
according to outer circumstances does not have peace;
rather, they have affliction.
In reality, it is impossible to control the outer enviroment;
and furthermore, the environment is ephemeral,
and constantly changing.
Only when we reach the level of realizing this,
shall we have true peace and happiness.
Consmer's rights - happen
Do you notice that most of the time, the receipt/invoice you received from the retail shop will have the similarly worded statement; "Goods sold are not returnable" or "No refund once sold".
Please remember that: As long as your goods is purchased for home use and not for business (to be resold), the above exclusion clause is VOID.
That means, as long as the good is defective, regardless of what is worded, you CAN get back all your money spent. You do not have to accept a repair on the good or an exchange. You CAN ask for a refund. AND you are LEGALLY right and entitled to!
And most of the time the merchant will refuse to return your money.
You can threaten the merchant with four words: SEE YOU IN COURT!
The court here refers to the Small Claims Tribunal Court. And goods which is worth RM25,000 and below can apply to this Court.
However, you don't have to tell them what court! All you have to pay is RM10 admin fee and the loser (the merchant) will have to refund you the money Plus the admin fee!
Here the contract:
Tribunal Tuntutan Pengguna Malaysia,
Tingkat 16, Putra Place, 100, Jln Putra, 50622 Kuala Lumpur.
Tel: 03-4049 2300 / 4042 4181
Consumer Rights
Birds in the Heart - Say Farewell to Old Friends
and doubt are the causes of our suffering.
We should learn to counteract them,
and free ourselves from their command.
However, this is usually very difficult to accomplish.
Like being urged to bid farewell to a good friend
whom we have known for a long time -
it is, indeed, not easily done.
Birds in the Heart - Five Inner Demons
People will work and toil throughout and entire life because of it.
Anger, like a raging fire,
makes us burn with impatience,
agitation, and distress.
Ignorance, like a trap, leads us to confusion,
gives rise to afflictions,
and locks us into unfavorable situations or
states of mind, unable to find a way out.
Arrogance, like a steel fence or iron wall,
keeps us from transcending the self,
and makes others feel uncomfortable.
Doubt like suspicion, mistrust, envy and jealousy,
is like a wind that is perpetuall unsettling,
keeping us from peace of mind.
Like five demons that lay hidden inside our hearts,
these five poisons are always lurking,
and waiting for every opportunity to make trouble;
thus, inflicting stress and strain upon our minds and hearts.
The History of Google
The Starbucks Logo
Starbucks Coffeehouse
Birds in the Heart - Thirst and Drinking
our minds become very busy.
Why?
Because, in order to satisfy the desire or greed,
we have to come up with many schemes,
and engage in every conceivable means for attaining that which we seek.
The inevitable result is that while laboring hard to get ahead, we forget our "original nature".
It is just like when we are thirsty;
we look for water to quench the thirst.
But we must not forget that drinking too much water can also lead to problems.
When desire or greed is excessive,
we will surely become trapped in some difficult situation.
This does not mean that we should suppress or eliminate all desire or grasping.
It means that we should know restraint and moderation.
Difference Between Pimples and Acne
A pimple emerges due to a specific blockage in the skin pores. It is more or less like a skin lesion taking a rounded bumpy shape. Sebaceous glands and hair follicles may often lead to the formation of pimples. It can also be termed as one of the direct results of conditions of severe acne. On the other hand, Acne vulgaris, often termed as just Acne is a familiar skin condition resulting form transformation in pilosebaceous units due to androgen stimulation. Acne gices rise to unprovoking follicular comedones and papules or at tiems inflammatory nodules and pustules when in the extreme stage.
As already said earlier, pimples are often caused by blockage in the skin pore. There are sebaceous glands present inside every skin pore which produce sebum during skin shedding. Often during such a process bits and pieces of the shedding dead cells are held back by the gluey sebum causing blockage of the skin pores. This is a common symptom during the puberty stage when the skin starts to thicken. As the sebaceous glands keep on secreting sebum the blackage builds up harboring various bacteria including the most common Propionibacterium acnes. On the other hand, Acne ovvurs when there is a blockage of the follicles. As sebum and keratin plugs start growing through a process of hyperkeratinization, the first signs of acne become visible. Thereon as enlarged sebaceous glands start secreting more and more sebum, there is also a boost in androgen production forming both black heads and whiteheads (open and closed comedones). Some of the precise primary causes of Acne are,
- Genetic syndrome in the family
- Activation of inflammation through scratching
- Hormonal activites
- Bacteria infection
- Anabolic steroids
- Extreme stress
- Restless sebaceous glands
- Exposure to harmful chemicals
Pimples can be successfully treated by appliying over-the-counter medicines, application of prescription medicine and popping. Some of the common over-the-counter medicines that are effective are salicylic acid, benzyol peroxide and Triclosan. Some of the prescription mediciens that may be suggested are isotretinoin, erythromycin and tetracyclines. Finally, though popping pimples is forbidden by doctors but still it is a commonly popular practice of relieving the pain and discomfort that pimples cause. On the other hand any treatment for Acne to render effect takes a minimum period of two and a half to three weeks. Some of the common modes of treatment used for Acne control are topical bactericidals, topical antibiotics, oral antibiotics, hormonal treatments, topical retionoids, oral retinoids, sulfur, dermabrasion, photo-therapy, photodynamic therapy, subcision, etc......